Friday , March 29 2024

LADIES SHOULD LEARN TO DEPEND ON THEMSELVES.

Ladies in this century want to depend on boys for money, phones, dresses and many other things. Most guys say that a girl who depends on them is lazy and is not a marriage material.

It is said that you can take money ask things from a guy but don’t overdo it to a point where the guy thinks that even without him you won’t be able to cater for yourself. The guy then starts to disrespect the girl since the girl is not independent.

No matter how much a guy loves a girl when the dependency is getting too much the guy might not able to tell her at the first time but as time goes on the guy sees it as a burden since the girl consistently ask for money and other things.

Susan B. Anthony said “Women must not depend upon the protection of men, but must be taught to protect herself”. Not only materialistic things ladies also depend on guys for protection. In times of danger the lady can also fight for herself. This makes the guy comfortable since he knows that if he is not there the girl can cater for herself.

Lady Gaga also said that “Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore”.

This means that a woman should follow a man alright but the woman should not forget about her dreams and career because a man who has all the money in the world can wake up and tell the girl that he doesn’t love the girl and the money is gone from her but her career cannot tell her it doesn’t love her anymore but rather she will still get her monthly salary.

Ladies should therefore focus on going to school so that they can get a job to do and in any case where she doesn’t have the money to move forward she can pick up a business and start with something she is good at.

 

Story By: Felicia Nanga/pinkfmonlinegh.com

 

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